When it comes to your s*x life, knowing how to get someone to have s*x with you can mean the difference between a great time and a lonely night.
For those of you who are single out there looking to get some action, it won’t be easy unless you know how to get someone to have s*x with you. If you normally aren’t getting lucky, you’re obviously doing something wrong.
Thankfully, those issues can be corrected. The trick with knowing how to get someone to have s*x with you is more about gaining someone’s trust. After all, most people would never hop in bed with someone they couldn’t trust. Right? So it’s your job to make that happen.
Choosing the right person to approach
I know how hard it is to approach someone while you’re out and about. It can be intimidating and quite frankly, nobody wants to be denied and turned down. That’s why you have to choose the right person to approach.
You want to go for someone who’s already showing interest in you. It’s all about being able to read body language and pick up on hints. Believe me, if someone is into you, they will be giving you all the signs. If you want to learn how to get someone to have s*x with you, you have to first learn how to tell when someone is into you
1 Look great.
This is a given, but you’d be surprised how many people go out looking like they just rolled out of bed. You want to look your best. Dress to impress – but keep it casual.
Wearing something both comfortable and something that makes you feel good will give you a confidence boost – and that only helps.
2 Smell great.
Bars and clubs are sweaty, stinky places generally. If you put on some great smelling cologne, perfume, or even deodorant, it can up your chances of bringing someone home by a lot. So make sure you’re showering beforehand and smelling delicious.
3 Get your place looking spick and span.
Nobody will want to return to have s*x if it’s a disaster. If you do end up taking someone back to your place, it has to be in good shape – especially if you want them to return in the future.
Keep it clean, spray some air freshener, make sure the dishes are done, and for the love of all that is good in this world, clean the bathroom.
4 Make sure you have what you’ll need in case you don’t return to your place.
It’s all good and fine to have your place prepared to bring someone there, but what if they suggest their place? You have to be ready to take your sexcapades to wherever they want. Therefore, you have to have condoms and anything else you may need ready to go before you head out.
5 Get rid of the roommate – if you have one.
There’s really not much that can ruin a hot night faster than showing up to a roommate sprawled out on the couch or out and about in the kitchen. It kills the sexy vibes when your hookup knows someone else will be right there listening to everything.