There’s an evolutionary secret that can help you understand how to attract men and make them desire you instantly. And the real secret’s right here.
Girls are more easily attracted to a guy who appears healthy and stress-free, has a good level of testosterone which makes him appear more manly and chiseled, and has a protective streak in him which makes him a good mate material and a father.
Guys, on the other hand, are more easily attracted to girls based on their appearance or behaviour.
But that’s not it though.
To truly understand how to attract men and how a man’s mind works, we need to get deeper into the concept of attraction from the male point of view.
How to attract men in a way they can’t resist
A guy may like a girl for different reasons, but when it comes to the physical or s*xual attraction, at first sight, her physical appearance and her behaviour matters more than anything else.
So if you want to attract a man and make him desire you, you just need to get his attention the right way. And the rest, as they say, is history!
You need to keep this in mind though, love and attraction are two completely different things. A guy may find you extremely attractive, yet he may not end up falling in love with you for his own reasons.
But for love to blossom in the first place, you need to build the s*xual attraction before you make him fall in love with you. It’s the safest way to make sure the guy falls for you and stays in love with you.
Attraction and how a man views a woman’s body
As we know that physical attraction plays a very big part in attracting a guy, you need to understand what a guy’s mind tells him when he sees you and sizes you up.
When a guy sees a girl’s physical assets, he subconsciously sees more than just your br**sts or your b*tt. The right curves in all the right places tells a guy that a girl is fertile and has come of age, and that she’s healthy because her body can afford to waste energy on developing her curves which play the biggest role in s*xual attraction.
A guy may think a girl is attractive. But in his subconscious mind, he’s gauging you as the woman who may carry his offspring one day.
Testosterone and a man’s s*xual preference
Every man produces testosterone, a s*xual hormone, in his testes. And women produce a small amount of testosterone in their ovaries. The more testosterone a man produces, the more manly he looks and the more sexually virile he is. His facial features appear manlier, his jaws are wider and more chiseled and his voice is deeper.
And several studies have shown that the more manly a man is, the more attracted he’d be to women who exhibit feminine traits *girlie, cute traits*.
On the other hand, a small percentage of men who produce a lesser-than-normal amount of testosterone may find themselves getting more attracted to women who are less feminine and more controlling and dominant in the relationship.
So if you’re trying to catch the attention of a typical guy *a large percentage of men have normal or high production of testosterone even though the overall average testosterone levels have dropped significantly in American men over the last 50 years*, chances are, he’d love you if your behavior is more feminine, cute and girly!
The perfect woman for a real man – She’s cute and sexy
A regular man who isn’t suffering from low testosterone would always find a feminine woman more attractive than a woman who thinks femininity is overrated and displays traits that are traditionally considered manly.
While a girl’s physical appearance is the biggest sign of femininity, at times, it helps if you can display more femininity in your behavior.
Why do guys like cute girls?
Men have always been the more aggressive s*x in the human species. They’re usually the ones who spread their legs wider, stand tall and swell their chest up while trying to appear threatening all the time, more so when they’re in an argument or when they meet someone they see as a threat in any manner.
But cute changes everything. When a girl behaves in a cute and feminine manner, it brings out the protective instincts of a man. Instead of feeling threatened by a feminine girl, he feels protective of her. That makes him feel more masculine, and that’s something every guy loves to feel!
When a girl reveals her vulnerable side to a guy, it’s very hard for any guy to ignore her or avoid noticing her vulnerability. And the instant his mind connects with her vulnerability, it eliminates any thoughts of a threat and his protective side creates a bond of protection and attachment with her.
He feels the need to be around her, and his subconscious mind tries very hard to make her feel protected, comfortable and loved him.
He loses his aggressive stance, the tone of his voice softens down, and his shoulders droop down towards her instead of spreading wide. And before he even gives the attraction a second thought, he’d realise that he likes the girl already!
Traits of a cute and feminine girl that draw real man
Many girls are against the idea of being feminine or behaving in a cute manner. To a typical feminist, behaving in a demure or coy manner is a sign of weakness. And they can’t accept that a guy finds a cute *and dare, we say it… A submissive* girl more attractive than a girl who likes to be a non-girlie girl.
If you’re feminine, you don’t really have to be cute. But if you can pull off a perfectly cute personality, it would only add to your allure and make you more desirable to men.
To understand cute behaviour better, all you need is to interact with a couple of Japanese or Thai girls whose behaviour isn’t influenced by us Americans. They’re not meek or silly, nor do they have to behave like stupid bimbos to win a guy’s affection. All they have to do is flaunt what sets them apart, and that’s their femininity and grace.
And no testosterone laden guy can resist the allure of a sweet Asian girl when he’s having a conversation with her. Everything about them makes them appear more beautiful and feminine, right from their cute heart signs with inverted hands, the way they nod their heads, the way they behave while having a conversation with you to the way they smile coyly and yet so warmly.
Femininity comes naturally to some girls *not just Asian girls*, but it’s an art that’s worth learning. If you want to know how to attract men, all you need to do is exude your feminine side while talking to them. And once you try that, you’ll know what I’m talking about.
And remember, a cute girl who displays her feminine side will always have an edge over all other girls when she’s trying to catch the attention of a real man!